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The Beauty of Silence
I left social media in July 2020. I wrote the following poem in December 2021. Now, as I reluctantly debate (with myself) returning to the social platforms “for the sake of business networking,” I feel inclined to re-visit this poem and why I wrote it.
I think sometimes our longing to be heard leads us away from the very thing we need in order to know what we’re trying to say.
That’s a convoluted way of saying I think we (I) need more silence in our lives (my life). And more (re)connection with the natural world. I don’t think social media is a particularly good place for someone who thinks this way (me). And so the debate continues: to return to social media, or not to return… (a topic for an essay all its own).
The Beauty of Silence
When the voices we once longed to hear in the midst of raging storms now in the depths of great despair lay silent, do not judge them for their lack of bold and hopeful advice. Be open to silence, for silence, too, is bold, though not always hopeful. Silence waits for us to have the courage to let it show us who we are. Still yourself against the noise and chaos of the world. The sky is blue and the midday sun illuminates all that it touches. Even you. You do not need permission to see the golden soapberries glowing bright and translucent. You do not need permission to listen to the fallen leaves rustle beneath the feet of mourning doves. To see the small things that offer such beauty, to hear the soft sounds that reverberate with life, this, too, is courage. This, too, is bold. This, too, will show you the way forward through the darkness. Lean into the wild, into the ancient wisdom of the natural world as it goes about its old, old ways. Touch the roots that are yours as much as they are the trees. Call them by name, and they will ground you to this one and only Home.